The choices he makes thrust his family into a paranormal battle with eternal consequences. The pastor and radio personality takes a prideful turn opening the door to a dark force that strikes without warning. Something sinister is unfolding in a Southern California church. Even more than that, it’s an unflinching account of a daughter’s struggle to see her father clearly, to know him more deeply, and to find a more truthful story about her family and herself. Finding My Father is a memoir of Eli Tannen’s life and the ways in which it reflects the near century that he lived. As Tannen comes to better understand her father’s-and her own-relationship to Judaism, she uncovers aspects of his life she would never have imagined. Beginning with his astonishingly vivid memories of the Hasidic community in Warsaw, where he was born in 1908, she traces his journey: from arriving in New York City in 1920 to quitting high school at fourteen to support his mother and sister, through a vast array of jobs, including prison guard and gun-toting alcohol tax inspector, to eventually establishing the largest workers’ compensation law practice in New York and running for Congress. In this memoir, Tannen embarks on the poignant, yet perilous, quest to piece together the puzzle of her father’s life. But when he hands Tannen journals he kept in his youth, and she discovers letters he saved from a woman he might have married instead of her mother, she is forced to rethink her assumptions about her father’s life and her parents’ marriage. As she grew up and he grew older, she spent countless hours recording conversations with her father for the account of his life she had promised him she’d write.

Though he was often absent during her childhood, she was profoundly influenced by his gift for writing and storytelling. “An accomplished, clear-eyed, and affecting memoir about a man who is at once ordinary and extraordinary.”-Forward Long before she was the acclaimed author of a groundbreaking book about women and men, praised by Oliver Sacks for having “a novelist’s ear for the way people speak,” Deborah Tannen was a girl who adored her father. A #1 New York Times bestselling author traces her father’s life from turn-of-the-century Warsaw to New York City in an intimate memoir about family, memory, and the stories we tell.

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